12.12.12 (part 1)

"Okay Jordie, it's really time to get out now..." my dad calmly explained to me for the fifth time, and he was right. As I climbed out from the passenger side of my dads truck the bitter cold air whipped me in the face, almost like karma was trying to slap me for all the … Continue reading 12.12.12 (part 1)

Loss: How I Explained Death to My Toddler

In the last few weeks I have had three deaths in the family. Each being significant to me in there own way. The most recent being the absolute most difficult, most difficult out of all losses I have experienced. Meme (my dads mother) passed away this past week after a long battle. She was such … Continue reading Loss: How I Explained Death to My Toddler

Grief: The Grieving Process

Everyone grieves in their own time and way, some more healthy than others, but all with the hope of the same outcome. I have experienced the loss of some extremely important people to me, and each loss I tend to grieve slightly different than the one before. I have had more then listed but these … Continue reading Grief: The Grieving Process

Accepting help: whether you think you need it or not

So as for accepting help, it is never easy, never. No matter if you know you need help or you are in complete denial, someone offering help can often feel judgmental or even condescending. This doesn't mean the persons intentions are in the wrong place, it is a hard thing, accepting the fact you can't … Continue reading Accepting help: whether you think you need it or not

“Blame it on my A.D.D”

Personally I went most of my life nonmedicated for my A.D.D And a thing I personally find my self doing a lot is explaining my forgetfulness, lack of attention, and inability to finish a project (for instance this is my fifth time attempting to finish this one blog🤷‍♀️).  Before I was diagnosed and when I'm … Continue reading “Blame it on my A.D.D”

Let’s talk coping skills

So as you most likely know, when going through a situation that causes anxiety, anger, sadness, stress, etc. You develop your own way to deal with these situations. Some are ways are healthy others not so healthy. It is definitely something that takes working on, especially if you have developed negative ways and need to … Continue reading Let’s talk coping skills

loving a girl that doesn’t love herself. What I want you to know.

I don't see myself the way you see me, we have different perspectives, they in no way resemble eachothers. When you tell me I'm beautiful and I can't help but dismiss it. I'm not looking for attention, I genuinely don't believe that I am. I can't comprehend how anyone could find me beautiful. I don't … Continue reading loving a girl that doesn’t love herself. What I want you to know.